How to overcome the comparisonitis you're feeling about not succeeding like everyone else
Ugh! Comparisonitis rises up for us all but those of us who soften its voice are able to slay in our own lanes.
I wanted to share what the real difference is between you, your business and those you seeing as succeeding (note there’s no doubt they're still facing their own struggles and demons too, they've just mastered some things you're still discovering, unlearning, developing and mastering).
The difference between you and the business owners you see succeeding is simply this (shared with love):
They have a vision and pursue it
They have a strategy for how to achieve their vision and deliver it
They listen to their intuition and are guided by it
They know their values and apply them to make decisions daily, fully aligned to who they are
They take time to reflect on the things that haven't gone so well for them and learn from their mistakes
They keep going even when they don't see immediate results
They trust in the(ir) process
They believe it is possible (aka whatever their heart desires)
When my clients first come to me it's not because they're lacking in some way or don't have the capabilities they need to succeed in creating a powerfully impactful business with the income they need, it's just they've got off track somehow, lost their trust or become disconnected from their vision and focus on how to achieve it.
They come to me to get back on track. To reconnect. To pursue with faith and conviction that all they desire is on it's way to them.
It's not they don't have something someone else does.
So if you've been feeling yourself comparing yourself to others recently, have a think about where you're not just trusting yourself.
Want help with your strategy, vision, embedding you values in your operations, trusting your intuition and approach to sales? I currently have two spots open to work with me 1:1. Six one hour sessions to reconnect to yourself and create the business you’ve always desired in 6 -12 weeks. Book in a call with me here.